Becoming a mentor

What Mentors Do

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The young people we work with are not “high-risk” but would really benefit from some extra care and attention. Mentoring sessions are a fun, relaxed time when young people and their Big Brother or Sister can hang out and build a friendship.

The programme is structured in a way that allows mentoring to begin as early as Year 1, so that the relationship can continue right through until high school and then in the community after that. Mentoring relationships are the most effective when they last a long time and when frequent contact is made. To be a mentor, you need to be able to offer one hour a week during school hours to see your child, as mentoring happens during the school day.

We are a programme that has high standards – all participants are screened, monitored, and supported every step of the way. Mentors also commit to having regular accountability with our staff, and will be supported by them throughout the mentoring relationship.

If you’re interested in becoming a Big Brother or Big Sister, contact the office on 351 4109, or send us an email. We look forward to hearing from you!

Why they bother

We’re all for having fun for fun’s sake but there is another, substantially more powerful, payback. As the relationships develop we notice that something really quite magical happens. Often quiet and unassuming in the beginning, these children begin to blossom.

Their confidence in school and at home grows, they interact more easily with their peers and they become more comfortable with who they are and what they have to give.This is not always the case but it happens often enough for us to believe that it is a worthwhile use of our time and community funds.

Alongside this, there is another pay-off: as is often the case in voluntary work, the mentors themselves get a tremendous amount from the process.

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Mentoring opens your eyes to the real life struggles our young people face and the need for one-on-one attention and encouragement. For many young people, simply having a mentor turn up week after week is so important, as this provides a stable relationship which will help connect them to other people and to the community around them.

Become a Big Brother or Big Sister Now

We’re always interested in hearing from potential mentors, so contact us now to apply. Phone the office on 351 4109, or send us an email for more information.

As part of our application process, we’ll meet up with you over coffee and talk through the process of becoming a mentor. So pick up the phone and call us now.


Big Brothers Big Sisters News

January 2012 "Want your next role to make a real difference". We're looking for a part time administrator to join our team. For all information about the position, go to the bottom of the home page.

December 2011 "Vodafone Foundation Grants $25,000". The Vodafone Foundation has generously given us a grant to extend our Community Based mentoring programme for earthquake affected young people.

December 2011 "Emma Lindsay boxes for our young people". Emma Lindsay from FACE property management boxed in at Fight for Christchurch and raised $2000 for our charity. You're braver than most of us Emma!

July 2011 "UBS sponsors 40 Big Brothers Big Sisters of Christchurch people on a three day break to Auckland". UBS has offered an incredible opportunity to people from our agency: A 3 night trip to an hotel in Auckland, with all flights covered during RWC 2011 final week. Wow! Thanks so much, they're so excited.

July 2011 "Big Brothers Big Sisters of Christchurch's story takes a new turn". With long term planning, some natural disasters and some generous folk, a new direction emerges. Read the post below "Starting something new in Christchurch"

July 2011 "Canterbury Community Trust grant $40000". Thanks so much for such a great contribution and for partnering with us to give more children mentors.

June 2011 "Hilton Queenstown opens and supports mentoring in Christchurch". The international Hilton Foundation has generously donated £10,000 to support the mentoring of children affected by the Christchurch quakes